You Won’t Be Top of Mind If You’re Blending In
I know you have the experience, the certifications, and the credentials. I’m willing to bet you’re delivering fantastic results, too. And yet, you’re being passed over, and you’re watching other people get the opportunities you’re working for.
Here’s a truth that may be tough to hear, but it can be empowering once you lean into it:
If you’re not showing up with intention and someone else is, chances are they’re getting noticed, and they’re top of mind. In Fortune Magazine, Rachel Shin wrote, “Your personal brand is crucial for your next promotion and raise.” A strong work ethic, networking skills, and creativity are all necessary to get ahead in the workplace, but they may not be enough. To land that huge promotion, you may need to be more strategic about how you present yourself.”
Confidence Can Come From Preparation
You may wait until the night before or the morning of a big event or presentation to scramble for something to wear. You are likely stressed, rushed, frustrated, and uninspired. Instead, use this tip.
Action Tip: Choose your next “public-facing” outfit. Plan your outfit for your upcoming networking meetings, presentations, or client meetings. Try on the outfit and make sure it fits and gives you confidence. Make sure you feel like you in it. This one proactive step boosts confidence tenfold.
Growth Requires Discomfort (and That’s a Good Thing)
I recently listened to a Mel Robbins podcast where she reminded her audience:
“If you want to grow, you have to do the things you fear. Push past the uncomfortable and do it anyway.”
That advice isn’t just for your career or personal goals. It can also apply to your wardrobe.
- That bold blazer, socks, or tie you’ve been eyeing?
- Those statement earrings you’ve hesitated to wear?
- The print that feels a little extra?
Try it. You don’t evolve into the next version of yourself by playing it safe. Growth often looks like stepping into the room wearing something that feels bold, new, and just a little scary, but still you. Plus, it will allow someone to compliment or comment and connect.
Make It Fun (Not Fashion Week Serious)
Mel also said, “Find the fun.” That’s your second secret weapon.
So what’s fun for you?
- A pair of socks with polka dots that peek out when you sit down?
- A bold lip color that makes you feel powerful?
- A bright shirt in a color that makes your eyes pop, and your confidence skyrocket?
Style doesn’t have to be stiff. In fact, the right wardrobe can energize you every time you put on an outfit. You just have to be willing to experiment.
Small Shifts = Big Presence
That tiny detail, whatever feels authentic to you, the pop of color, the elevated outfit, the bold choice, doesn’t just help you feel good. It makes you memorable and helps you stand out from the crowd.
And when you’re memorable, you become:
- Top of mind
- More likable and easier to trust
- Someone others wants to refer, connect with, and promote
Stepping out of your comfort zone, dressing with intention, and showing up on brand is what takes you from invisible to impactful. It’s not a complete wardrobe overhaul, just one brave, intentional choice at a time.
What Does Your Next-Level Look?
Is it a specific color? A new style? A bold piece that scares you a little…just enough to signal growth? Start there. Wear something that stretches you. Let it represent the version of yourself you’re stepping into.
Showing up with style isn’t about vanity or trends. It’s about choosing visibility, voice, and value. If this message resonated with you, reach out, hit reply, or book a Style Inspo Session. You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
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